Two weeks ago our youngest daughter started school and I thought it might be useful to reflect on some of the ways that we helped to ease her into this significant change in her life. I think that the most practical thing that we did was to help her
to feel a sense of belonging to the school community. We enhanced the usual school visits by going to the school playground in the weekends, peering through windows and identifying relevant features (drinking fountains, toilets, hall, office, sibling’s classrooms etc). It is also worthwhile to check out the school fair as this gives you the opportunity to ‘read’ the walls of classrooms.
‘Say goodbye with a smile’ has become our new mantra…and so far we have succeeded! It has been vital to set up a positive, predictable and unhurried routine that the new entrant teacher supports. Have a really good think about what will work well for you. For us it is important to arrive at the same time every morning. We read a story together or peruse some work from the previous day. When the 8:30 bell rings I say goodbye, and stick to it. The teacher takes her hand and together they choose a sticker for the ‘goodbye with a smile chart’ and wave out the window. Tremendous…
I really appreciate being able to go to work on a positive note, knowing that she is being nurtured and accommodated.
Long may it last!
Let your child’s teacher know that their extra work is valued. A good new entrant teacher often gives up their morning tea break and even some of their lunchtime to ensure that their new students are coping. At the end of the first week we gave a little posy of flowers from the garden with a card full of genuine words of thanks. Happy school days!
Sally:)





